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moumita Perfect

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Posted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 7:10 am Post subject: Only Women will Understand |
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I invite all our lady friends to this forum. A forum specially dedicated to talk about and share everything that you feel only women will understand.
Now, friends you need not go anywhere else to Girl-talk. This is your place, your forum, and be comfortable to discuss all womenly subjects. |
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Posted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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Okay.
Let me ask the first question.
What do you do when you don't want to have sex with your partner in a particular time? Do you make lame excuses? Or do you do it and fake it? Or you say it to his face without thinking what will he feels? _________________ -under construction- |
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moumita Perfect

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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:48 am Post subject: |
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I am not married, therefore I don't think I will be the right person to answer your question.
But I feel, one shouldn't be faking. Afterall you need not lie to your partner, if you have a good understanding. If you say that you are not in the mood, surely he will understand, and not force you. |
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 8:20 am Post subject: |
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Yes, I agree too. If that will happen to me I will never fake it nor force myself to do it even I don't. I want to be honest with my partner. I just asked because some of the women do that. _________________ -under construction- |
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moumita Perfect

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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:10 pm Post subject: |
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| You are right, many women do that to please their partnet, but how many guys do that to please their partner ??? No one. Yet the women worldwide thinks that, they can get closer to a guy's heart in this way. |
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:23 pm Post subject: |
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| joyce423 wrote: | Okay.
Let me ask the first question.
What do you do when you don't want to have sex with your partner in a particular time? Do you make lame excuses? Or do you do it and fake it? Or you say it to his face without thinking what will he feels? |
simply i say i don't feel like to do, i am sorry,canwe go for to 2morrow. my husband is very undersatnding,he never forced me to do in this last 6 years.  |
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moumita Perfect

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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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| anita999 wrote: | | joyce423 wrote: | Okay.
Let me ask the first question.
What do you do when you don't want to have sex with your partner in a particular time? Do you make lame excuses? Or do you do it and fake it? Or you say it to his face without thinking what will he feels? |
simply i say i don't feel like to do, i am sorry,canwe go for to 2morrow. my husband is very undersatnding,he never forced me to do in this last 6 years.  |
That's cool. You have a nice and understanding husband. What more do you need, I mean you are so lucky that you got such a nice man. |
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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| moumita wrote: | | anita999 wrote: | | joyce423 wrote: | Okay.
Let me ask the first question.
What do you do when you don't want to have sex with your partner in a particular time? Do you make lame excuses? Or do you do it and fake it? Or you say it to his face without thinking what will he feels? |
simply i say i don't feel like to do, i am sorry,canwe go for to 2morrow. my husband is very undersatnding,he never forced me to do in this last 6 years.  |
That's cool. You have a nice and understanding husband. What more do you need, I mean you are so lucky that you got such a nice man. |
thanks moumita |
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Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:54 am Post subject: |
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| i sued to just ell my hubby no i dont want to and he would get so mad at me but when you do not want to you should not have to and your hubby should understand this. |
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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| petite four wrote: | | i sued to just ell my hubby no i dont want to and he would get so mad at me but when you do not want to you should not have to and your hubby should understand this. |
You have very wonderful husband.
| moumita wrote: | | You are right, many women do that to please their partnet, but how many guys do that to please their partner ??? No one. Yet the women worldwide thinks that, they can get closer to a guy's heart in this way. |
And that is not the right thing to think and do.
We don't have to force ourselves to do the things we don't like just to please our husband or boyfriend.
I'm glad we share the same sentiments.
| petite four wrote: | | i sued to just ell my hubby no i dont want to and he would get so mad at me but when you do not want to you should not have to and your hubby should understand this. |
Oh yes, I think you are right.
When that happens, you need to talk to your husband because it is not right to treat their wife like that.
If their wife doesn't feel like doing it, they should respect it. _________________ -under construction- |
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 8:09 pm Post subject: I say NO |
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But he never listens and now he is so mad at me that he has shifted to a seprate room altogather, I feel relieved now. He will come around I know but I needed some space so badly. _________________ Hi If you like me be my buddies. |
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 10:00 am Post subject: Re: I say NO |
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| mahive wrote: | | But he never listens and now he is so mad at me that he has shifted to a seprate room altogather, I feel relieved now. He will come around I know but I needed some space so badly. |
Time will come he will understand that. Give yourself a break and relax. I know for sure that someday, you'll get that break that you want have give him what he really wants.  _________________ -under construction- |
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 4:42 pm Post subject: Re: I say NO |
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| mahive wrote: | | But he never listens and now he is so mad at me that he has shifted to a seprate room altogather, I feel relieved now. He will come around I know but I needed some space so badly. |
I have a different view. Sometimes nice relation between spouses gathers dust. In that case, it is the duty of both to clear that dust. I suggest you to talk to your husband clearly, face to face. May be he will understand. You need to get back that spark in your relation. |
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Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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| petite four wrote: | | i sued to just ell my hubby no i dont want to and he would get so mad at me but when you do not want to you should not have to and your hubby should understand this. |
Its unfair to the husbands,what if he has not been having regullar sex with you and that night he needed it so badly,he could even beg for it.So will you say hey! am not in the mood???  _________________ Am the luckiest child on earth.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 8:28 am Post subject: |
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| ettidollars wrote: | | petite four wrote: | | i sued to just ell my hubby no i dont want to and he would get so mad at me but when you do not want to you should not have to and your hubby should understand this. |
Its unfair to the husbands,what if he has not been having regullar sex with you and that night he needed it so badly,he could even beg for it.So will you say hey! am not in the mood???  |
Yes you have a valid point. You are correct, that it is not always the husband's fault. In such cases the husband must have a clear talk with the wife. |
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